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HEAL AND MOVE ON!



Accidentally they came into your life, unexpectedly you fell in love and all of a sudden they left. You're still waiting for them, aren't you? Your face still lights up when your phone buzzes and your heart sinks when you realize it isn't them, and the harsh truth is you'll always be waiting for them but they aren't coming back.

Breakups and heartbreaks leave you devastated. It may take a lifetime to forget all the good memories you had spent together. But what is the point of holding on to the things which are painful. Let's turn those bad experiences into the fuel to move on. That's what is called winning.

Long time after your breakup, you realized moving on is not easy. You may have done everything to forget someone but memories don't leave you so easily. You have to go through so many mood swings. Some times you feel like you have moved on and at the same time you can feel the pain in heart like all this happened yesterday. Even after trying so hard, you can't stop missing them. You might hate them for everything bad they did but you still fail to hate them because deep in your heart you know you truly loved them.

Unloving someone you once loved is not easy, but you need to keep moving on or you'll miss the train to bigger things than this in life. Honestly, it will be the hardest thing you'll ever do, but it will be worth it. It hurts to let it go, but sometimes it hurts more to hold on.

"Growth is painful, Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong."

The only solution is fighting with your own thoughts and reminding your heart the reason for unloving them. Life goes on, Time passes by and you'll learn to live. Soon you'll start trusting the process of healing. It's a time taking process and depends on your power of acceptance. Don't lie to yourself. Accept it if you can't un-love or hate the person, It's a sign that you need to forgive them. Understand that you both had to split up because you were not meant to be together and have two different paths. Wish for their happiness no matter how bad they hurt you, that's your greatness and think whatever happened was for the best.

"THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS GETTING SOMEWHERE IS TO DECIDE THAT YOU ARE NOT GOING TO STAY WHERE YOU ARE"















































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